This chat is excerpted between I and the good lady who introduced Sharon Li (李杉) to me.
Just let you know I went to Sharon‘s place yesterday. Let her know I want to finish two years obsession to her. Time to move on. I reckon I have done all the best I can do, as a man with responsibility, although I was numb, blunt and stupid a lot time.
I have published and I am going to publish more true stories under the series title “爱的宣言” about Sharon and me on my personal blog, without her permission. I know it’s not nice. But I still can’t calm down inside me to a few things she said and did to my other friends and me.
Call me a narrow-minded guy. But I have my words here – I will forgive Sharon one day, to all she did inappropriately I reckon to a person who once really loved her and was very nice to her. But not now, not at the moment.
I just want to say many thanks to you for introducing Sharon to me. Although it’s not a happy end story, I don’t regret at all. I found more new friends, knowing myself better, and becoming maturer and stronger in mind during last two years.
Meanwhile I have to say I’m a normal man as well. I have my selfishness and weakness. Although I shared some my experience with you, you can take as a reference, not as an advice. I am failed and tumbled on my personal relationship too.
I really don’t know about girls two years ago. I never had a formal relationship with girls before. From now, I can see I missed a lot of opportunities. Sharon has already signaled to me, but I hesitated. Maybe I was too greedy, selfish and never satisfied. In fact, I didn’t have my commitment at all at that moment. As soon as I realise I need to catch up, it was too late. This is bad luck. And maybe just Sharon and I don’t have this fortune to be together.
But there is no harsh feeling to you at all.
Furthermore, I don’t think Sharon is a nasty girl, although she has her upfront, dominant characteristic to others that really upset me when she already in her mature age. These are just the things happened between two person. No one is absolutely right, no one is totally wrong.